Tributes and Remembrances


"Angels at Heaven"
 

 Jared worked as the receptionist/computer expert and only man on staff at his sister Lori's business "Heaven A Day Spa" from 2000 to 2002. He was loved by the customers for his kind, gentle, and thoughtful ways, but he was adored by his coworkers, whom he named his angels. The following tributes were written on a poster and presented to the family on the day of Jared's service.
From Your Angels at Heaven:
Jared, you were one of the most sweetest, lovingest people I knew. I will miss your big blue eyes and kind heart. Thanks for making me one of your angels. You will never be forgotten sweetheart. Love, Jacqueline Lovin
Oh Jare, we never got to finish Friday. Maybe it's better we only tried that once seeing how we almost burnt down Lori's house. You increased my love for comic books and just showed me what its like to have infinite and unconditional kindness. I'll always hold you deep in my heart. Love ya, Hannah
Such a short time I knew you, we had a blast. Heaven now has an angel of its own, please take care of us. You'll be deeply missed. Love always, Jaclynn
Now you can be a Super Hero too! Peace, love, Nishi
Jared, you are going to be missed by everyone! Keep smiling down on us from Heaven :) Jessica Martinez
Hey Jer - I want you to know that you were always such a good friend to me. I will miss our talks. You were always an "angel" in your own way, and that's what made you so special. Thanks for always being there. I love you. Molly
I heard you playing guitar that night. Love, Lulu
Hey buddy, your the coolest guy I know and I'm sure I'll see you on the other side of the moon so keep it real my Green boy. Love forever, Laura Price, your angel.
Yo Jared, you were a shooting star bro. Always shining! Peace forever, love Cat
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All our love, your sisters, Lori, Sarah, Susie. We love you Jared.

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Green (08.06.03)

Now I understand grief
Now I understand
    How to cry and cry while not
        shed a single tear
I want people to see this hollowness that
    I feel
    I miss you
    But that can't express
        how badly
        I feel
I want to hug you
Clutch you in my arms
Touch your face
You are
    You were
    So beautiful
I never told you I loved you
I never once marveled at
    The wonder of you
Now I would give anything for that chance
For five minutes
Please come back
I don't want to understand
Forever means forever
That we will never
Be a sentence in present or future tense for you
If I say your name
    One hundred times
    'Till my tongue is sore
Will you finally hear
    How sweet it fills my mouth
I am you
     You are me
I don't want to UNDERSTAND!
Take the book on life
Out of my curriculum
Because I miss you
I just want you back
That is all I ask
That is all I want
I will never forget your birthday again
I promise
      Please
F*ck God for taking you
Did S/he not know you weren't through
I want you back
I want five minutes
Of your precious breath
Can't we trade?
The world is lost without you
Days are so long
Without you at the end of them
Everything reminds me of you
      Everything
You had so much
      Cuz
I don't want to
But now I understand grief

 

Becca Beddingfield

 

HONORING JARED



Although our time together was but a brief weekend, I am reminded of Jared's youthful, inquisitive and creative spirit.  The weekend was an "inward journey," a quest to explore personal purpose, values, vision and a renewed sense of the "magical child" within.  Surely, Jared was a seeker and a young man with gifted sensibilities.  Whether he found what he was seeking will forever remain a mystery but he emanated the ambition to undertake the journey.  I remember him as bright, affable and genuine.   His passing is seemingly premature and indeed brings sadness to his loved ones, yet we must remember that he passed this way, left his mark and made a difference.  Personally, I am gratified that he created the opportunity to engage in a process of deep mental/emotional introspection prior to his leaving us.  Clearly, "there are no accidents" as far as the timing of that process.  I trust Jared is now at peace.........

To his family and dear friends, I express my deepest condolences and warmest regards.  When someone we love departs this plane, we cannot help but learn something deeper about ourselves.  I feel confident that Jared made an indelible imprint on the lives of everyone he truly touched.  Rather than mourn incessantly over his demise, let us give thanks and praise for what he gave us.

Warmest & Deepest Regards,
Duane E. Smotherman, Senior Trainer
Resource Realizations. Inc.
 





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